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Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Leah the teambuilder

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I met Leah on a ski slope a little over 12 years ago.  During a lift ride I learned that she was a new college graduate, had family in and around Newport, and that she didn’t have a job.  My initial impression, which later grew substantiated, was that she was humble, motivated, hardworking, positive, active and enjoyed having fun.  I thought about how hard it was to get a day off and figured she might be someone that could potentially help with that.  I invited her to send in a resume and to come see us at SEA CORP.    The interview soon followed and we signed her up to help us with the ongoing engineering work.  She quickly became embroiled in developing the designs to put new systems on the submarines.  She didn’t have a ton of confidence but she wasn’t afraid of anything. You could tell her what you needed done and she’d have her little half smile that was more of a grimace, raise her eyebrows, and would say a hesitant “OK” and then she’d go back to her desk.   When she finished she’d unveil her work expecting that it was all wrong.  She would be disbelieving when I said that I thought it was great.  “It is?” she’d say with a bit of surprise and would raise her eyebrows.

She was great person to work with.  She had a great work ethic and a playful sense of humor. It was so important to her that she create a positive atmosphere and to be part of a team.  She didn’t get easily rattled.  It almost felt like she trusted me more than she trusted herself.   If I told her that she could do something, she would believe me and she would do it regardless of how difficult.   You could ask her to do something, that maybe sounded impossible, and she’d just accept it, maybe give you a facial expression saying “this isn’t going to come out so good” and then she would go do it.  

We went to a ship check near Seattle, WA and she talked me doing some hiking around the area. It made me more aware of what the area had to offer and I found more hikes on subsequent trips.




She is the kind of person that makes life enjoyable.  The kind that you try to find in the world and then

Leah the fabulous baker!



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I'm about to make my first loaf of cinnamon swirl bread and I'm thinking about Leah.  I wish I could call her and ask her how she made hers so amazing.  She usually made it for me for my birthday.  Sometimes she would just have it at her house when we came over for a play date.  Now that all the services are over, I'm left with those moments that I wish I could call her, or have another play date with her.  I miss you Leah.  - Sarah Atwood



Hi Kim,
Thank-you so much for helping everyone to continue sharing Leah stories!

Whenever Leah made us her delicious and healthy vegan banana muffins, she knew our entire family all loved them, so she made sure to give us the recipe for us to make them ourselves. After she baked the muffins and gave them to us, she would text us to make sure we each ate at least one while they were still warm. They won't ever taste the same without her touch, but we wanted to share the recipe just as she gave it to us with her changes and handwriting. Now everyone can enjoy her recipe and more of her "sweetness".

Love you Leah!
The Colman family (Judy, Drew, Hadley and Paige)
 

Monday, March 30, 2015

Leah's laugh

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This memory was shared by Matt Ploutz.



One of my favorite memories of Leah came in the days after she and my brother were engaged at the top of Castle Rock, on Blue Mountain Lake.

The engagement ring came in one of those boxes with a little battery powered light to reflect off the diamond and make it sparkle.  Leah discovered that an amazing reuse of this box was to project light on the wall of the cabin we were staying in, which was a perfect backdrop for shadow puppets.

Since we were in the Adirondacks (and because they're hilarious creatures), I decided that my character would be a moose.  There really is nothing THAT funny about a shadow puppet moose with an ultra-deep voice speaking mostly in grunts, but I never heard Leah laugh harder than when I was "performing" as that character.  As anyone who spent time with Leah knows, her laugh was contagious, and before too long, everyone would be holding their stomachs and out of breath from uncontrollable laughter.

I would've shared this one at the Memorial Service, but 1) Someone would have coerced me into doing the moose voice in public, and 2) While it would have been one of the more lighthearted stories, I would still have had a hard time keeping my composure.  It's really hard to face the reality that Leah's laugh only lives on in our memories.

Sharing Memories

I am posting on behalf of Leah’s family as they are going through this difficult time. They want to express their deepest appreciation for all the kindness and support they have received from everyone this past week. They are so grateful to have such wonderful people showing their love and respect for Leah, and those closest to her.
One of the hardest things when grieving is the fear of losing the memories. For myself, Leah was my best friend and every hour and every day that passes is bittersweet because it means I’m a little further from the days when Leah was physically on this earth and in my life. I want to hold on to everything that was Leah.
Bryan had the great idea to encourage people to share memories here on Leah’s blog. This could help someone who has a memory they don’t want to lose, and is also healing for Leah’s family who can learn of new memories that will be preserved in this blog.
So please do so whenever you are comfortable! You may leave a blog comment, or send an email and I will create new blog posts. It can be a couple sentences, or multiple pages and it doesn’t have to be a one-time-only if you find you have more to say as time goes on. If you’d like to share pictures, please send an email since I don’t think pictures can be added to blog comments. If you’d like to email a memory to just share privately with the family, please indicate that in the email so we don’t post it.
Leah has cultivated a healing community on this blog and I hope everyone can feel comfortable expressing what is important on it. Sharing can be difficult, but it is so important.
Comment wherever on this blog.
And please check back often to read what others have shared and continue the legacy Leah started.

Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Services

http://oneillhayes.com/tribute/details/860/Leah_Catherine_Ploutz/obituary.html#tribute-start

Calling Hours / Wake
4:00 - 8:00 p m Thursday March 26
O'Neill-Hayes Funeral Home
465 Spring Street
Newport, Rhode Island, United States
02840
on-street parking

Memorial Service
10:30 am - 2:00 pm Friday, March 27, 2015
Atlantic Beach Club on the 2nd floor
55 Purgatory Road
Middletown, Rhode Island, United States
02842
overflow parking at Easton's Beach


The agenda for the memorial service will be roughly as follows (to the best of my knowledge right now):
10:30 - 11:20 - service by Pastor Mike from Fall River Church of Christ
Break for coffee & danishes & slideshow of Leah's pictures
Then we encourage people to share their memories of Leah for all to hear at this time

Calling Hours

4:00 pm - 8:00 pm Thursday, March 26, 2015
O'Neill-Hayes Funeral Home
465 Spring Street
Newport, Rhode Island, United States
02840
- See more at: http://oneillhayes.com/tribute/details/860/Leah_Ploutz/service-information.html#content-start